- Physical improvements
- Environmental improvements
- Verbal improvements
- Nonverbal improvements
Make Physical ImprovementsSimple changes to your physical appearance and actions can improve communication. For example, trimming a mustache and/or beard so that it does not block the mouth, makes an instructor or supervisor easier to lipread. Making sure all of your face can be seen and that you don't have anything in your mouth, helps too.
In my personal opinion, a hearing person should not bend down to talk because it may irritate the deaf/hoh person. Bending down also does not improve communication and in fact may make it more difficult. (A hearing person told me that this behavior is very similar to an English speaking person yelling on the phone to a foreign person.) Carry a small pad and pen or another means of communicating in writing such as a handheld device that has a word processing program like Notepad. Many cell phones such as the T-mobile Sidekick come with note writing capabilities.
Make Environmental ImprovementsControlling the environment can also help communication. Make sure that your position is good relative to a light source. Good and properly positioned lighting helps with seeing speech and signs. Monitor the noise level as noise can interfere with understanding. (About Deafness/HOH has an article on Classroom Acoustics).
In a group situation, make sure only one person talks at a time. If you have a board available, write notes on it. Prepare and distribute agendas for meetings in advance. In my personal experience, a good though imperfect backup technique is to have a hearing person with a laptop sit next to the deaf person and take notes as you would for a college lecture.
Make Verbal ImprovementsMy personal opinion is that speaking slightly slower helps. Other deaf people prefer normal speech. You may have to repeat or paraphrase. For a hard of hearing person, speaking louder but not shouting, may help. Do not exaggerate your speech. For some reason, "Can you read lips?" seems condescending to me. I prefer that hearing people let me tell them if I can lipread. I can, but only up to a point. Do use sign language if you know any sign even it is only the sign language alphabet.
Make Nonverbal ImprovementsNonverbal communication is very important to deaf/hoh people, who get many information cues this way. Use facial expression, and gestures. You may have to touch a deaf person on the shoulder, arm, or leg to get their attention if they are close enough to you. Otherwise, you may have to stomp your foot on the floor or flash a light.
In conclusion, a hearing person who has never met a deaf person before does not need to feel awkward or frustrated. There are plenty of techniques to use. Hearing people can communicate with deaf/hard of hearing people even if they do not know sign language.
Read More Resources
- Communicating with Deaf People: A Primer - This page has more suggestions and facts including the fact that only 40 percent of speech is visible.
- For Hearing People Only (compare prices) - This is a classic book that has helped many hearing people to understand deafness. The title is self-explanatory.